Melinda + Bernhard

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21/06/2025

LOCATION

Lake Balaton
Hungary

Church
Lengyel kápolna

Venue
Káli Art Inn

 
 

Káli art inn

Payment for Your Stay at the Art Inn

For those staying at the Art Inn over the weekend, please use the PayPal details below to settle the outstanding balance for your room.

bernhard.loferer@outlook.com

Thank you, and we’re looking forward to welcoming you!

THE DAY

indicative timeline - subject to change

13:00 Gather & Greet - Káli Art Inn
14:00 car ride to the Church
15:00 Church ceremony - Lengyel-kápolna
16:00 driving back to the Art Inn
17:00 Cocktail hour by the lake
Garden Reception - Champaigne
Photographs
18:00 Dinner
21:00 Party
22:00 Cake
24:00 Bridal dance

Contact

Best Man and point of contact:
Marius: +49 173 7160612

You're welcome to join the WhatsApp group - it could be useful for any information going forward. (just click on the image, and it will redirect you)

USEFUL INFOS

arrival and parking for guests staying in the art inn

As you enter Köveskál, stay on the main road. If you're coming from Budapest, you’ll spot the Káli Art Inn on your left-hand side.

Please park in front of the building first, then head to the reception, where either we or the hosts will welcome you, hand over the keys, and guide you to the designated parking area for your stay.

Looking forward to seeing you there!

Arrival and Parking for Wedding Day Guests

If you're joining us just for the wedding day, you’re welcome to park in front of the Káli Art Inn.

As you arrive in Köveskál, stay on the main road—coming from Budapest, the venue will be on your left-hand side.

No need to worry about anything else—just park and come celebrate with us!

Dress Code & Footwear

Think festive or garden party attire—feel free to dress up and have fun with it!

We kindly ask you to avoid wearing white, red, or black, as we'd like to reserve those colors for special roles on the day.

You’re welcome to wear heels if you’d like, just be aware that some areas have grass and gravel, which might make walking a bit tricky.

Boys, don’t worry—it’s easy for you. Just put on a nice shirt and show up!

Shops in the Neighbourhood

Please note that grocery stores and shopping options near the Art Inn are limited, as we’re located in the peaceful countryside.

We recommend planning ahead and making a stop on your way to pick up any essentials you might need during your stay.

This way, you can fully relax and enjoy the beautiful surroundings without any worries!

Transportation & Taxis

Please note that Uber and taxis are hard to find in and around Köveskál, so getting around on short notice can be tricky.

We strongly encourage carpooling—it’s more fun, more eco-friendly, and a lot more reliable out here in the countryside.

To make things easier, feel free to use the WhatsApp group/chat to coordinate rides, share spots, or offer a lift to others.

Thanks for teaming up and helping each other get there smoothly!

TRADITIONS

Hungarian wedding traditions

Kikérés (Ceremonial Asking for the Bride)

  • A theatrical and often humorous scene at the bride’s house.

  • The groom “asks” the bride’s family for her, but they might joke and offer someone else first (like a grandmother or child), before finally giving him the bride.

Menet (Wedding Procession)

  • In village weddings, the groom would arrive with music and a procession to take the bride to church or city hall.

  • Sometimes the whole wedding party walks with live folk music (e.g., fiddles, accordion).

Two Ceremonies (Civil and Religious)

  • A civil ceremony is legally required in Hungary.

  • Many couples also have a Catholic, Protestant, or other religious ceremony afterwards.

EsküvÖi Fogadalom (Wedding Vows)

  • Often given in a religious ceremony, sometimes personalized.

Menü és Pálinka (Food and Spirits)

  • The feast is central: multi-course meal with soups, meat dishes, cakes.

  • Pálinka (fruit brandy) is served frequently for toasts.

  • Midnight meal (pl.: töltött káposzta – stuffed cabbage) is common.

Nyitótánc (First Dance)

  • The newlyweds open the dancing, followed by family and guests.

Menyasszonytánc (Bride’s Dance)

  • Around midnight, the bride changes into a red dress (see below).

  • Guests take turns dancing with her, giving money as a symbolic gift. Traditionally, the money is collected in a basket or the bride’s shoes.

Menyecskeruha (Red Dress for the Bride)

  • After midnight, the bride changes into a red or burgundy dress, becoming a “wife” rather than a “bride”.

  • This symbolizes the transition to married life.

Elrablás (Bride Kidnapping)

  • A playful tradition where the bride is "kidnapped" by friends.

  • The groom must complete funny or difficult tasks (like dancing, singing) or buy her back with drinks.

German wedding traditions

Standesamtliche Trauung (Civil Ceremony)

  • A civil marriage at the registry office is legally required in Germany.

  • Often held on a weekday, with a small number of guests.

Kirchliche Trauung (Church Ceremony)

  • Optional but very common for religious couples.

  • Usually held after the civil ceremony, sometimes on a different day.

Brautkleid (Wedding Dress)

  • Brides wear a traditional white dress.

  • Grooms usually wear a dark suit or tuxedo.

Sawing the Log (Baumstamm sägen)

  • After the ceremony, the couple saws a log together, using a two-person saw.

  • Symbolizes overcoming challenges together in married life.

Wedding Car and Honking (Hupkonzert)

  • The newlyweds drive away in a decorated car.

  • Other drivers honk to celebrate – a loud and joyful moment.

Wedding Cake (Hochzeitstorte)

  • Usually multi-tiered, often with a marzipan or fruit filling.

  • The couple cuts the cake together. Whoever’s hand is on top while cutting is said to "wear the pants" in the relationship.

Bridal Dance (Brautwalzer)

  • Traditionally the first dance is a waltz, opened by the bride and groom.

  • Sometimes followed by a “money dance” where guests pay to dance with the bride.

Games and Sketches

  • Friends and family often plan funny games, skits, or quizzes about the couple.

  • Can include dressing the groom in funny costumes, romantic challenges, or storytelling.

Shoe Stealing (Brautschuh klauen)

  • A guest "steals" the bride’s shoe and auctions it off at the reception to raise money for the couple.

what you can actually expect

HUPKONZERT

on the way back from the Chapel

MENYASSZONYTÁNC

bridal dance around midnight

LEDERHOSEN and DIRNDL

change to traditional bavarian outfit after midnight

BOUQUET TOSS

the bride throws her bouquet to the unmarried ladies

MENYECSKERUHA

the bride is changing to a red dress around midnight

NYITÓTÁNC

the newlyweds open the dance floor

HOCHZEITSTORTE

wedding cake

THROWING RICE

shower the newlyweds with rice
as they leave the ceremony

GIFTS

Your presence is truly the biggest gift—especially since many of you are traveling from far away to be with us. We feel incredibly lucky already!

If you still feel like giving something extra, we’ll share a QR code for money transfers (in case you feel to contribute to our endeavour trading in our so far trusted Honda wich has collected us many km-s). There will also be a letter box at the venue for those who prefer giving in person, as well as a spot for physical gifts or small keepsakes if that feels more personal to you.

But really—no pressure at all. Just come, celebrate, and have fun with us!